IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY ALWAYS, THEN SURELY PRACTICE THIS DILIGENTLY!
There’s a big Difference Between – “Being responsible” and “taking responsibility”
Being responsible is performing the right actions and standing up for your values. These actions are neither influenced by the mind or your emotions. They are also not analysed by your intellect.
Taking responsibility is becoming attached to someone else’s environment and your actions taken for them become your own bondage.
In your Spiritual life, you become responsible for your actions only by guiding yourself and then responsibly guide others by standing as an example. Empower others with sound knowledge and values.
When you take responsibility, you get stuck. You become the Doer and take responsibility for the consequences too. You will be stuck forever! You will become a part of someone else’s journey! You may also be blamed for it unnecessarily.
The guilt will not leave you and you will feel responsible for anything and everything that the other person does.
You will begin to relate to every other action of that person and assume they are happening in that person’s life because you did not take responsibility on time.
Keep your journey uninfluenced by anything or anyone. Be happy! Be detached, just be responsible!
Do not take responsibility! Do not get stuck!